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1. Being as honest as possible
2. Fully disclosing everything done
3. Answering all Questions Fully
4. Taking Full Responsibility
5. Moving towards the Partner
6. Seeking Professional Help
7. Expect emotionally charged feelings
8. Seeking forgiveness for specific acts
9. Fully acknowledge your sins
10. None Defensiveness
11.Taking own initiatives in locating help
12. Promise to do all necessary to recover |
1. Defensiveness & Vague
2. Providing only partial revelation
3. Trying to protect from full truth
4. Minimizing, Blaming, Excusing
5. Withdrawing & Pouting
6. Refusing to admit your need for help
7. Expecting rational, calm attitude
8. Remaining General & coldly dispassionate
9. Saying, "Well, haven't you ever sinned?"
10. Shifting Blame to others
11. Making spouse promise not to tell anyone
12. Pressuring spouse to forgive your adultery |
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