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 Trust in the lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.
(Proverbs 3:5)

 

 

 

For Parents
 


A Mother’s surrender of an adult child with Gender Identity Disorder


My child is wayward and confused. No matter what I try to say to him, he responds with bitterness and malice

My heart is broken, my soul weary, I have done all that I could but he still will not listen and see the truth clearly

The stress that he has caused through refusing to get well has been like a weight around my neck that I have been holding

No more preaching, no more fights now, not even a scolding

For I have come to a place where there is no other option

I must give my child up to his Father for Adoption

His father Loves him more than anyone in the world
He chose him to be His son not a daughter, not a girl

He chose him before he was even in my womb
For him to live and not to die that is why his father bled and died for him and was raised out of the tomb

His father loves him very much and is pleased with HIS SELECTION

I know that when I give my son up, His father will keep him under His protection

So, Father God, Lord Jesus, I have done all that I could and I cannot do anymore

I am tired and weary and there is no other way, the best thing that I can do now is give him to you and to continue to pray

Please take your son and hedge him in the way only you can do

Make things for him rough, because your Love is tough, give him no slack
God corrects the ones He loves in order to bring them back


Keep your hand of correction upon him, take him under your wing until his blind eyes are open to the truth

Remember Father your promise that in the last days you will pour out your spirit on our youth

So, today I have to say Goodbye for now, trusting you, Lord, no more worries, no more fears

I need you to help me to move forward and wipe away my tears

I hope that you will deliver him now and it will not take another seven years

Lord, my hope is in you and no other
I thank you in advance for answering my prayers as his mother

Written by Lily

Year 2009.